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Writer's pictureJudith Ostronic

Different Endings

I love to read, but the real satisfaction comes at the end, when I finish the book. It's a genuine sense of accomplishment, no matter the book. Fleeting, yes, but genuine.

 

I can pinpoint the feeling to that brief time between scanning the acknowledgements and digesting what I have read, and beginning to think about what I want to read next.

 

There are always so many options. Good options. Like the first day of vacation in a well-appointed hotel room, looking around and asking “what pre-paid amenity am I going to use first?”

 

I finished an excellent book this week called Master Slave, Husband Wife: An Epic Journey from Slavery to Freedom by author and historian, Ilyon Woo. I recommend it to anyone who might enjoy what is essentially a love story about a self-emancipated husband and wife, written against the backdrop of the mid-to-late 1800s, a period of great historical significance and turmoil in America. The book is dutifully researched and beautifully written. It's a true story.

 

Woo observes that “every story begins with a question or a quest,” and admits that while her two protagonists met the very goals they set out to reach —freedom, safety, literacy and a family of their own— their story includes many different endings along the way, not all of them happy, which is what makes it so compelling. It has different pieces, she explains, “because it doesn't simply end where they're achieving their self- emancipation.”

 

And now I can't get this thought out of my head. All the endings that make up our own personal history, moving us along to the next person, place or thing. It's a thought that raises a question or two.

 

What have your endings looked like, and where did they take you next? What forces were at play?

 

What happens when you reach your goal, or destination? Do you let go for a while, relinquishing momentum so you can finally relax? Maybe savor your achievement, creating space and readjusting your focus to something new?

 

Or do you double down on the energy and determination that helped you get there? No rest for the weary, as has been said, there is always more to do and more to accomplish. Is that you?

 

If you've been reading my weekly missives along the way, you know I'm not writing to dole out any advice. I'm here to ask questions.

 

As your coach, I'll pose a variety of questions I hope will knock loose an idea, release a sense of clarity, or crack open a motivation that's been stuck and perhaps even causing you discomfort, like a chia seed between your teeth.

 

At this point in life you have your own personal history that also includes different endings—some happy, others maybe not. Different pieces that make your story compelling. So what's up next for you? What will your next ending look like and what will it lead to? How can I help? Get in touch, I would love to know.

 

Me? I've got another book to finish, and another one after that.

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